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How to solve the goal conflict
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Posté par
og86
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2009-Mar-30
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06:30
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How to solve the goal conflict
The goal conflict can be solved by way of establishing preferential order. You must make the decision: As to at presenting, what goals are the most important.
It seems very easy to be solved that some conflict. For example, if feel the dream that has not been really paying attention to those oneself and valueing all the time for a long time alone, he probably will realize oneself set other goal free, arrive, have priority position straight immediately - -Obviously, he did not have in the face of reality in the past.
And some conflict and solve there may be difficulties. When you must face two conflicting goals to make the decision, please remember: You can adjust one's own preferential order at any time. You just write one's own goal on the paper - -Do not carve it on the marble.
If you unwilling goal a certain (for example, go back to school again) Put at position that have priority relatively, another goal (for example, spend more time accompany household) Put to the secondary position, then you can consider that put two goals to the likewise important position. You than another goal large two hours time spent at one goal, you can still tell oneself it is the same in the positions of these two goals. Even if two goals are contradictory each other, or need finishing within same time slot, you can also be by giving up one of them calmly - -Certainly, just give up temporarily. Until next week, or in the the coming year, you can choose, pay the goal pay attention to more.
You must face this challenge, must confirm what things are really important, and establish preferential order accordingly. Want, screen to goal these, I recommend you to use three goal lists which you have already got ready.
How to arrange in an order
Take out the goal list in your life, elect the goal of three periods of most important life in one minutes. Classify that most important goal in these three goals as A- 1. The second important one is classified as A- 2. Followed by A- 3. Carry on the same screening in the three-year goal and goal list of six months.
Till at this moment, you have already chosen nine goals from three lists. Should want to further select three most important goals from it, you need to take out a piece of clean paper again, wrote on it, " three most important long-term goals of mine were
" Then write out these three goals siquentially: A- 1, A- 2, A- 3.
All right, the goal state, roughly defined that hopes on earth what is got from life oneself after you have already finished preliminary life now.
While receiving the individual customer, I will often spend much time discussing the goal is stated in their life with them. This kind of discussion may last about two weeks, we will generally revise it six or seven times, could write out the goal in life that can really need on behalf of the customer finally. You can try to revise the goal of one's own life repeatedly too, you will find that it is really very helpful to do it in this way.
It seems that a professional photographer will shoot a lens repeatedly, the same until reaching the ideal result, you can make the clearest result by revising the goal of one's own life repeatedly too. So I advise you to repeat a today's exercise tomorrow, then compare the results of twice with. I can guarantee, you will never receive the all the same result, and you will probably add some new information when revising for the second time. People's brain works like this.
Because the goal is stated it is not static, so it should be being upgraded constantly phasedly in life. It is your birthday to assess the best period that the goal is stated again every year. Even if you established a goal list very well by oneself last year, situations of this year will be different to some extent too, so perhaps the goal list last year can't already be imagined on behalf of your goal of this year. With the growing up constantly of you, your goal list should be upgraded in time too. |
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