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How to solve the goal conflict
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How to solve the goal conflict
The goal conflict can be solved by way of establishing preferential order. You must make the decision: As to at presenting, what goals are the most important.
It seems very easy to be solved that some conflict. For example, if feel the dream that has not been really paying attention to those oneself and valueing all the time for a long time alone, he probably will realize oneself set other goal free, arrive, have priority position straight immediately - -Obviously, he did not have in the face of reality in the past.
And some conflict and solve there may be difficulties. When you must face two conflicting goals to make the decision, please remember: You can adjust one's own preferential order at any time. You just write one's own goal on the paper - -Do not carve it on the marble.
If you unwilling goal a certain (for example, go back to school again) Put at position that have priority relatively, another goal (for example, spend more time accompany household) Put to the secondary position, then you can consider that put two goals to the likewise important position. You than another goal large two hours time spent at one goal, you can still tell oneself it is the same in the positions of these two goals. Even if two goals are contradictory each other, or need finishing within same time slot, you can also be by giving up one of them calmly - -Certainly, just give up temporarily. Until next week, or in the the coming year, you can choose, pay the goal pay attention to more.
You must face this challenge, must confirm what things are really important, and establish preferential order accordingly. Want, screen to goal these, I recommend you to use three goal lists which you have already got ready.
How to arrange in an order
Take out the goal list in your life, elect the goal of three periods of most important life in one minutes. Classify that most important goal in these three goals as A- 1. The second important one is classified as A- 2. Followed by A- 3. Carry on the same screening in the three-year goal and goal list of six months.
Till at this moment, you have already chosen nine goals from three lists. Should want to further select three most important goals from it, you need to take out a piece of clean paper again, wrote on it, " three most important long-term goals of mine were
" Then write out these three goals siquentially: A- 1, A- 2, A- 3.
All right, the goal state, roughly defined that hopes on earth what is got from life oneself after you have already finished preliminary life now.
While receiving the individual customer, I will often spend much time discussing the goal is stated in their life with them. This kind of discussion may last about two weeks, we will generally revise it six or seven times, could write out the goal in life that can really need on behalf of the customer finally. You can try to revise the goal of one's own life repeatedly too, you will find that it is really very helpful to do it in this way.
It seems that a professional photographer will shoot a lens repeatedly, the same until reaching the ideal result, you can make the clearest result by revising the goal of one's own life repeatedly too. So I advise you to repeat a today's exercise tomorrow, then compare the results of twice with. I can guarantee, you will never receive the all the same result, and you will probably add some new information when revising for the second time. People's brain works like this.
Because the goal is stated it is not static, so it should be being upgraded constantly phasedly in life. It is your birthday to assess the best period that the goal is stated again every year. Even if you established a goal list very well by oneself last year, situations of this year will be different to some extent too, so perhaps the goal list last year can't already be imagined on behalf of your goal of this year. With the growing up constantly of you, your goal list should be upgraded in time too. |
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06:30
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2009-Mar-30
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First, the figure is printed
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First, the figure is printed
It
Electronic Manufacturing Electronic Manufacturing Services has the following several typical characteristic that the figure is printed:
First, the digital printing course is the course from computer to the paper or printed matter, i.e. has changed digital file, page into the course of the printed matter directly;
Second, it must be digital to print the forming process of the final image in figure, do not need simulation course of any intermediary or involvement of carrier;
Third, the information of the digital printed matter is 100% of the variable information, adjoint two printed matters that export can be totally different, there can be different edition, different contents, different size, even can choose the bearing and printing things of different materials, if it is the publication, it can be different too to bind the way.
We
Electronics Manufacturer can say, three major characteristics printed by figures according to needing, timeliness, variability.
Second, number draw a design
What is called number draws a design, is the page (or printed sheet) making colored tabletop systematically Data, through of any kind simulation means, directly by colored printer (gush out Chinese ink, laser, other way) Export the specimen page, long technological process in great numbers such as the film replacing simulation with Israel while drawing a design and printing down,etc., in order to check the picture page quality of the process before printing, offer for printing process and consult the specimen page, offer to user and can sign the
Electronics Manufacturing China Electronics Contract Manufacturing basis sent to press.
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04:25
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2009-Feb-3
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Simple village.
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This words should bring home to one's heart to hear, but at this moment, it is numb and indifferent that there is what I feel only.
"Father, you needn't so. " These answer timidly, these polite formulae, these words which persuade people needn't really be used on my body. It is that at all it is unnecessary now at least.
Jane shake whom face of forest change a bit embarrassed, try, turn on several mouth, pronounce line for a good while, "small Jie, you are my only daughter. "
These words are from my indistinct thorn of pit of the stomach, very painful, but leave scar.
"Father, I know, I am your daughter, just, not that you have a son. " An opening, is to cover up the satire not going again.
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It is stunned that not so unexpected as to see father at all and slightly show the extremely awkward expression, suddenly felt a bit laughable, I have not thought of injuring anyone, it might as well be hurt and wronged to just injure and let me feel easy to constrain constantly.
"You shouldn't say so. " A deserted and deep voice is stung into in the ears.
I am distracted, hoped to go towards that sound source, smiled immediately, " it said anything what shouldn't I should talk, obtain your consent of the mat gentleman. "
The overcast and deep and remote and clear and remote eyes pupil stares at me directly straight, sink and sneak a kind of deep deceitful and right one.
Mourn in silence mat Xi time thin dish for a moment, " time for 6 years really let you change much. "
That eyes like night always restrain all emotions into it, it is very good to cover up, but what only is that wiped and flowed now? Ache? I wonder why I will think it is not he himself that he aches. It is baffled and agitated to inhibit that burst fled in the heart suddenly, turn to father on one side, "what look for me? " Do not want to kill time here in vain in vain again.
" small Jie, " Jane shake forest go back too supernatural, " actually Xi time "
"I think I come here for come, talk about mat Mr.. " The cold is cold may want the speech about the dinner Xi time to shake the forest to interrupt simply when being connected.
"Hey. " Jane shakes the forest and sighs, nods towards the dinner Xi time, but the Xi time of the mat is still watched to me, sight is cold to sink but gloomily.
For a good while, Xi XiChen takes a file out to stand up and go to I from padauk desk.
I stand in where it is forcing - -He passes the file over, I have not stretched out one's hand to connect, have only looked at thinly - -It is a house property that amortizes the book.
Writing above: Simple village. |
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09:39
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2009-Jan-2
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On letting to be bright
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When good luck comes one has good ideas.
She very much thin for interest to make playwriter, but for leaving that bleak and chilly city, it is happy to let to cherish a silk bright and beautifully.
Sometimes the reason which stays at a city and refuses to leave does not only stimulate newer courage and opportunity like marriage.
She has nearly already at the same time determined she wants to change a new environment, she hopes she solves irritating depression, with ordinary working hours, there are normal loves, everything stands up healthily miraculously.
She does not know condition beginning to fall into like this that when it is, since it seems that she has had memory, oneself has not been happy. The woman who perhaps chose the writing and sang, previous existence has all had evil reason not speaking clearly. But is letting to look bright and beautifully, unhappy first, and then begin the writing.
Depressed teenager, can only mediate the lonely one, only write.
Those self-assured words, like pieces of spirit, jump out one's own ambition, attack on the clean paper. That is the world out of the common, in that world, oneself is the control of the things person, everything, the magical thinking that it is since own that come from. It is heavy and heavy for world to speak, speak light and light, ambition but limitless, the place that trees clarify soul of everybody can reach absolutely not, is this good or bad?
She has been wanting to give it leaving a telephone before walking dully all the time.
But she does not know where she has gone. That is a completely wounded terrible brave and noble-minded woman of the body and mind of love, in her view, so helpless. Perhaps she needs her help, but can help some of her by oneself. Can't say clearly.
She just hopes she can be a bit happier. She even thinks, that kind of gloom constrained of hers, perhaps can speak to oneself. Her fond dream feels, she is oneself before several years. All foolish things ever done for the love, she can be in order to understand. Just a thousand sails are crossed to the limit, she does not hesitate to have courage to invest, loses the fierce strength. She leaves oneself to drift with the tide like this the ground encounter many sections of disasters, air the heart under the sunshine, the one that should certainly stand trials and hardship while attacking is riddled with gaping wounds. Let bright and beautiful to small to say, see on dull, give my telephone or E-MAIL to her while being beautiful. Small to say on dull, hey while being beautiful. A talented woman, can draw the inconceivable artistic illustration. If she is not so brave and noble-minded, perhaps she can live much more happily.
Have got to Beijing for a long time, be unable to forget that scene while letting to be bright and beautiful. She is before making great efforts to consider that scene to take place, in the dull expression. She thinks, the emergence of a miserable incident like that, she must ferment for a good while. In one public occasion like that, wave, play man that oneself love, what does it need with courage definitely. Perhaps he is a married man, jolt with her, downhearted gradually, even escape; Perhaps he betrays her, falls in love with other women, looks at their emotion on the vacuum; Perhaps he has promised her something, he is unable to accomplish, and bold and assured Let to see unique lovers bright and beautifully, she has been thinking all the time once the woman is unique, it must be like the dying embers to the love. Then, what kind of can love make woman heart such as dying embers?
Make the the tired and lazy one as cat like the dying embers on the dull heart. It is not a heart like the dying embers completely certainly, if is really dying embers, just have no faith of struggling, that a kind of dying embers unreconciled. Can't be satisfactory, destroy. Understand, it is in fact the very most pure love. It is dispersed that the love gets, can not succeed desperately, lose dimly, unreconciled, then tear.
--The thing is so simple, you faint in the subway station, I have you in one's care. Let bright and beautiful to give on dull to pour one water, tell her, say ten more than all over same some what already patient, she summarized such sentence finally. She does not really know how to explain this emergency. She really thinks too between them, have a kind of fate hidden, unexpectedly she will run into her like this. On one always unexpected woman really. Standing up dully stoically, have looked everywhere, then back to talking, do you let to be bright and beautiful?
Having ever contacted you me, had given me your telephone small and beautiful, but your telephone newspaper stopped, I have sent E-MAIL to you too, but you did not go back, I. I have ever drawn the novel illustration on several magazines for you. Do you know me?
Let to say bright and beautifully, I certainly know you. Previous cocktail party, the palm slapped the incident. On dull one cool, continue topic, then she raise one's head, see, let bright and beautiful to say, before finding the work, can you really have me in one's care? Let to mean one that is very small nearby bright and beautifully, say, that room if you are willing, can be living in all the time, if I have left Beijing, you yourself hand in and rent.
Taking the things to that room dully, begin to tidy up. Have so huge equipment in her bag originally, let to see bright and beautifully she spreads a magnificent sheet on the bed, then she sit by bed affording to lost in thought. Though I know you very the legend like going hither and thither very much.
Let to say bright and beautifully, this city has given me a kind of cordial sense, I will not leave it temporarily. Saying dully, Xi'an makes me abhor equally, I have ever lost wallet three times there, have lost the card,
ID card, student's identity card, various special discount vouchers I am penniless. Up to now. Let to say bright and beautifully, why do you suddenly come to Beijing? Pondering dully for quite a while and saying, if I say I love a man in Beijing that has not met, will you laugh at me insane? Let to really smile bright and beautifully. In fact to dull such a woman, no matter what is done, she will not feel unexpected. On dull to say who does it meet always, take place story always. But mostly some very bad stories, remembered that kind that will feel like vomiting after several years. Let to say bright and beautifully, don't always deny the love in the past, that once bright over your soul too. Saying dully, oh. Then, the person that every one loves, do you cherish the memory of? Do you think them very beautiful? Are you anxious to feel? Since beautiful, why separate?
Let to be bright and beautiful to be at one time tongue-tied. How to answer? If such happiness, why separate? Let to be bright and beautiful to be a bit awkward. In fact, is full of dividing disputing passingly jointly, is there anything beautiful? She likes protecting oneself too in those in the relation apt to break more and more, who visits the sincerity of seeing her? She is not wholehearted, they have no soul, as soon as the mortal world of vulgar dust meets, destined to fall scattered. She remembers that village city cut off by a hopeless feeling E-MAIL of oneself, she changes the telephone, having changed all contact ways, even if he has thousands and thousands of words, does not know where to begin either, he must hate her.
On letting to be bright and beautiful dully to be in a trance for a moment, already assigning the room surprisingly becomes the lovely small nest of a warmth, she is really an innate art woman, have creativity of having words at one's fingertips. She strolls about, refrigerator and the TV are covered with various small things, the narrow face witch of the broom rides, there are pumpkins grinning to smile at. She always has a little evil and evil makings, is different from everybody.
Standing dully in front of letting to be bright and beautiful, said mysteriously, that man whom I loved, rare to see, I love him very much. How can I love him like this in Israel. She has taken out the drawing board from the room, among them there is an American teenager's head, she refers to let to look bright and beautifully, she says, this kind of man of my clock purpose, the narrow eyebrow of thin eyes, lonely and beautiful.
Let to say bright and beautifully, who can not like such a man. |
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06:11
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2008-Dec-16
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