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Posté par
nn86
le
2009-Jul-8
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09:45
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For this reason, the psychologist has adopted three steps of consulting to her.
The first step is to help her to lead bad mood off, adjust her psychology, enable her to face the new life actively.
Lisa falls into the marsh that feels self-humiliation, asserts oneself is the person who the whole Harvard feels self-humiliation most, it means she has overly expanded intensity of one's own spiritual agony, can't see the value that oneself survives in the new environment. So on one hand the psychologist admits the difficulty that she faces at present is that she is unprecedented in life, so the mood that she reflects is very natural. Meanwhile, the psychologist tells her, the incompatibility of Harvard, all sorts of emerges to react with feeling self-humiliation burntly and timidly, this is very general in Harvard, not she is a person. This makes Lisa produce " A lot of people were the same as me too originally " Usual sense.
The second step is to do one's utmost to lead Lisa to turn the visual field compared to oneself from others. The feeling self-humiliation of Lisa takes shape Computer|Computer Peripheral|Laptop Battery|Computer Accessory|Electronic Part|Computer Accessories|Electronic compared with classmates, she feels she is not so good as others everywhere, everything is unsatisfactory, therefore think that seems to be the ugly duckling in the swan group oneself. Before she is coming to Harvard University, the school grade has been very good all the time, but the best achievement is only 4 fen after reaching Harvard.
In the past, it was others that consulted her, but now, it is she that wants to consult others frequently at all times. So Lisa that copy guide, think proud confidence all go already originally. Originally, Lisa has been a favourite pupil in teacher's mind all the time, the man of the hour in the campus, target whom everybody envies. But nowadays, she has already become the most unattractive personages in the campus.
This line of psychological contrast, it is the sad sigh of the surplus person in Harvard University to make Lisa produce oneself. She has not realized, will have such a psychological contrast oneself, because while comparing with classmates in the past, what she obtained is full of self-respect and self-confident; But while comparing with classmates now, what she got is full of feeling self-humiliation and sympathizing with by oneself.
So, the psychologist does one's utmost to let Lisa know how to learn to compare with oneself more in the new environment, and does not compare with others. If will certainly compare with others, perspect to others and not so good as one's own side in such aspects as school grade, will.
And then, the psychologist begins to help Lisa to adopt the concrete action, put the concrete difficulty in study in order, make the corresponding study plan to overcome and improve. Meanwhile, the telephone hot line of the students that makes up that let Lisa participate in an undergraduate in Harvard, let Lisa make many new intimate friends too while helping other classmates, more important, Lisa feels again during the process of helping others self-confidence is increasing, feel Harvard University needs her, she is no longer a surplus person in Harvard University. |
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